It Takes a Village. Event Organising and Parenting Are More Alike Than You Think

This article first appeared in my LinkedIn articles in October 2025

Parents coming together as a village at Thrive in Parenting

After 3.5 months of planning, Thrive in Parenting Summit opened its doors to parents, experts, and allies ready to connect. For the past few months, it was a wild ride of schedules, speaker confirmations, late-night emails, and more post-it notes than I care to admit. But what sticks with me most isn’t the logistics. It’s something deeper: I realised how the work mirrored exactly what parents deal with every day.

Collective Wisdom: More Than Logistics. It’s Emotional Infrastructure

I went into organising the Summit determined to make every piece run smoothly, and for a while, I tried to do it all myself. But the reality set in fast: doing it solo is unsustainable. It is definitely a shortcut to burnout. Every small win, a kitchen mishap fixed at the last minute, a tech issue solved just in time, was possible because I had good people I could lean on.

NOBODY needs to do it all alone, at home, at work, or in community. Each supporter, whether they managed logistics or just listened when I felt overwhelmed, brought their own stories, ideas, and presence. This holds true for families. The real power comes from your tribe, the ones who show up in person, check in, give you space to vent, or watch your kids so you can breathe.

Support isn’t just nice to have. It's the lifeline for every parent especially when family is far away.

Conscious Parenting Isn’t Perfection. It’s Realignment in Chaos

Summit planning tossed curveballs, just like parenting does. Here’s what helped: staying aware. Don’t chase perfection; show up with intention. Sometimes you need to step back, see the bigger picture, and remind yourself why you do this work in the first place. (As a coach and facilitator who hosts in-person and virtual events, I know the stress of having attendance and sometimes forgetting the message!) Mindfulness isn’t about getting every detail right. In parenting, it’s noticing when you’re off course, not beating yourself up, but recalibrating, anchoring yourself in what truly matters.

What will you fill your cup with today? An important parenting message.

What If We Gave Ourselves Permission to Find our Parenting Village?

Drop the perfection act. Call for help. Share the mess, not just the highlight reel. The wisdom I found through the Summit and my own parenting lives in these messy, collective moments. [Note to self]

To every working parent out there: You don’t have to do it alone. You don’t have to be perfect. But you do need a tribe, and a reminder to check in with yourself once in a while. Support is not weakness nor failure. It's the bravest, strongest thing you can get so that you are there for your family feeling calm, whole, loved and present. 

Parenting takes a village.

#FindYourVillage: If it takes a village to raise a child, yours is here now. Click to access your village